Saturday, August 30, 2008

26 Weeks



Violet is rapidly growing.. and kicking her mamma like mad! She had very strong legs and arms!! And she is so much fun! She responds to Joel and I when we talk to her or sing to her! She really loves it!
I was reading over Naarah's blog when she was pregnant with GG and its funny how very similar the two are in the womb! The other day I began to put music on my belly while i am at work. And boy does she love it, she really dances and moves big time when music is played. When I am at open mic she does the same, dances and moves around the whole evening!

The other day we saw her turn around, and my whole belly moved with her! That was very strange and Alien-esque... quite fun!
Another thing that I have to agree on with Naarah is how I dont' like it when I see other pregnant women. I seem to get special treatment as a lovely pregnant lady, but when there is more than just one in teh room well there isnt' as much special treatment to go around. And I do not like that...

Beach day!!

Today was the best day of summer so far! The sun was actually out and it was warm.. i got sun-burnt today! But it was worth it because the sun disappeared for most of the months of July and August!! Our friend Dave and us, hung out all day at the beach soaking up the sun. And the we came back and had great summer food!!

Tonight we went back down to the beach to try to fly a kite. It didn't work because there wasn't much wind! But the tide was very, very low! And we had a lot of fun taking pictures and wading in the water!!




my belly from my perspective

joel and dave... their band "Sounds like bears"

comparing bellies with dave.. i think i win this game!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

24 weeks along

Here I am at 24 weeks!!




Holiday time

Last week we had the opportunity to go on holiday! God totally blessed us with a beautiful time. Our friend Robin's (who sang at our wedding) parents have a holiday home in a city called Bournemouth which is about two hours west from us. They let us use their holiday home for free for a whole 5 days. We were so blessed to have this time away because we would not have been able to afford a holiday anywhere this summer. Their condo was amazing, we were able to cook for ourselves and watch TV!
Here are some pictures we took on our first day because that was our only day of nice weather. The rest of our time on holiday the weather was terrible, we had gale force winds and rain! But hey.. the olympics were on!



the room from our bathroom! so beautiful!

this was on our long walk into town.. overall 4 miles! it was so much fun




 a whole two benches full of elderly people! Blue hairs as we call them here!
we wanted to ride the hot air balloon but it was too windy


some thinks so!!
this is a shop... a funny name hey! 

Sunday, August 03, 2008

A Saturday of Pride

As Brighton is known as the gay capital of England we have a huge Gay Pride Parade event every year. Normally Joel and I stay inside because its a very busy and action packed day, and not normally a day you want to be out and about! But this year we wanted to reach out and love the people who enjoy Pride! So we did and we had so much fun! Two people came down from Holmsted to help out, Drew and Virginia! And a church that is directly on the parade path let us use their church entrance and stairway (the same church we use to do tea and coffee ministry every Thursday with Holmsted). We offered free tea and coffee and biscuits and a toilet for people to use as well!

When we got to the church there were people already standing on the stairs waiting for the parade to start. It was a very rainy and gloomy day so it was a blessing to offer people hot drinks and a dry place to stand for a little bit. The people already on the stairs helped us lure people in which was great. The one thing that made my heart sad was that there was a family of 4 there with 2 young girls who came to watch the parade. I don't see how they could find this a family event... we saw this type of thing a lot on Saturday families coming to watch the gay parade.

We were there to love and show these people God's true love for them. And I think we did a good job! It was amazing how many people were very surprised to the church doing something like this for them. many people commented on how they were blessed and happy that Christians were showing love and not hate to them. I was so blessed to see that and to hear that we had made an impact on their lives, and many times I was able to say this is because we love you and God loves you. A few people reacted badly and said really negative things, but overall people loved it.

I am really excited for next years pride, a few people asked if they would see us next year and told just hey were looking forward to seeing us here doing the same thing again next year. I really believe we did what God wants us to do.... love our neighbor.. not judge or preach at them, but just love them. Show them simple mercy and kindness. In a city that is so harsh and cold we feel its important to show mercy and kindness. And mercy looks different in a city setting then in a developing world, mercy here means giving someone a warm drink on a cold day or a place to sit down for a bit, or a free toilet to use or even just a biscuit on their way to a gay parade. That is how I believe Jesus loved people just living life and showing mercy... and I want to continue to do that over and over again in Brighton.



One of the funny things that happened to me while handing out biscuits was there was this man standing directly in front of me only wearing a white vest and a g-string... but I didn't see him at all... but almost all my pictures I took of the parade had him in it in all of his glory... Joel later asked me.. did you see that guy in front of you who wasn't wearing anything.. and I was like um, no.. and well I did see him in my pictures.

Here are some of the pictures: